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A child’s wedding is a significant milestone, and for many LGBTQ+ couples, it is a powerful reclamation of a tradition that has historically excluded them.
: When addressing the couple, follow their lead on titles. If they share a last name, you might use plural titles like Messrs. or Mesdames on formal mail. For wedding invitations , use both names on the same line separated by "and".
: Small gestures like writing supportive messages in cards —such as "Standing proud with the two of you in celebration of your marriage"—can mean a great deal to a couple who may have faced homophobia or marginalization.
In the book author G. Merrill explores how same-sex marriages reshape the dynamic between parents and their adult children. Whether you are navigating wedding planning or adjusting to a new child-in-law, here are practical ways to support your child and foster a healthy relationship during this transition. Supporting Your Child Through the Wedding
Clark professor explores parents' relationships to gay in-laws
Developing a bond with a same-sex child-in-law often follows a different path than traditional in-law relationships.
: Be aware of the larger LGBTQ+ community and its role in your child's life. This can help you better understand their perspective and the significance of their marriage.
Marriage is just the beginning of a new chapter that often includes raising children or managing family transitions.